by Karl Nehring
The musical world lost a great one with the passing of Brian Wilson (b. 1942). One of the sad things about growing old is seeing people you have known and admired for most of your life come to the end of theirs. Music has forever been an important part of my life, and as I grow older (approaching 76), I have seen many of my musical heroes pass on. Some of the deaths that hit me especially hard were those of Miles Davis, Wayne Shorter, Leonard Cohen, Phil Lesh – I could go on, but those are the names of some musicians who brought great joy into my life; their deaths brought great sorrow. But as I have said before, thank goodness we have recordings so that their music can live on.
Just when I was starting to get over the passing of Sylvester “Sly” Stone, whose music was able to stimulate my body to dance in the ‘60s and calm my military mind in the ‘70s, I saw the news of Brian’s demise, which I immediately passed along to some of my close friends who I knew were also admirers of the man and his music. I soon received replies expressing shock, grief, and heartbreak. Several friends mentioned Pet Sounds, the Beach Boys album that was Wilson’s brainchild – by nearly universal acclamation one of the greatest rock albums ever released. Others mentioned “God Only Knows,” a song that many consider one of the finest rock – if not popular, period – songs ever recorded.
We once reviewed an album by Wilson on which he did not sing, but rather just played the piano. You can read that review here. Wilson’s playing is far from virtuoso, as he was the first admit, but it is heartfelt. As a composer, arranger, and producer, he sometimes went in for grandiose ideas that frustrated his fellow Beach Boys and led to bitter divisions in the band – and ultimately to his own prolonged battles with depression, advisors, and mental health issues that for many years kept him away from the business of making music. But he eventually made his way back and enjoyed a successful musical and personal renaissance, remaking some of his earlier projects and embarking on successful touring shows. He played his last concert in 2022. Sadly, in 2024, his family announced that he was suffering from dementia.
Although his drive to explore new sounds and complex harmonies are what made him famous, it is the simple, vulnerable, extremely personal music that makes Brian Wilson so memorable. Two of his songs in particular will forever live in my heart: “Love and Mercy” and “I Just Wasn’t Made for These Times.” Try to imagine these words being sung in his plaintive, vulnerable voice:
I was lying in my room
And the news came on TV
A lotta people out there hurtin'
And it really scares me
Love and mercy, that's what you need tonight
So, love and mercy to you and your friends tonight
Or these:
I think I got somethin' good goin' for myselfBut what goes wrong
Sometimes I feel very sadSometimes I feel very sad
Sometimes I feel very sad
I guess I just wasn't made for these times
It may well indeed be true that Brian Wilson just wasn’t made for these times; however, his music, at least for many of us of a certain age and disposition, makes these times better. Thank you, Brian, and may you rest in peace.